May 27, 2015

Pope John Paul II Society

Many years ago, our former campus minister, Fr. Andrew Nelson, established the Pope John Paul II Society.  This society honors members of our senior class for their commitment and dedication to the work of Campus Ministry and/or their faith lives in their communities.  The students who are inducted each spring receive a beautiful medal and are able to wear it at graduation along with any other regalia.

We induct the newest members each year at our Awards Night (which was this evening) and I am honored to announce the members from the Class of 2015:

Taryn Adams
Millicent Alhamis
Erin Barry
Christopher Burnes
Nicholas Capobianco
Mallory Cashin
Rachel Chaput
Jessica Charron
Carolyn DeBeradinis
Shannon Duffy
Kaytlyn Elder
Pierce Gilman
Bethany Kosiarski
Shannon Menard
Jonathan Mercurio
Kelly Moloney
Vincent Ndahayo
Liam Quinn
Jacob Salter
Catrina Sylvia
Luke Testa
Andrew Van Uden
Margaret Windler
Erica Woods

May 24, 2015

Come Holy Spirit...

Today the Church celebrates Pentecost, when we commemorate the descent of the Holy Spirit upon the apostles.  Pentecost means "the fiftieth day", that is, the fiftieth day since Easter.  Ten days ago we celebrated the Ascension of the Lord to heaven but He said He would not leave us orphans.  Rather, He said He would send the Holy Spirit to give them the guidance, strength, etc. to continue His mission here on Earth.  It is called the birthday of the Church as it was from this event that the  mission of the Church began.

The Holy Spirit is of course the third person of the Trinity so this is a sort of feast for our school.  Our true feast day is next week when the Church celebrates the Solemnity of the Holy Trinity.  In the meantime, may God the Holy Spirit continue to help animate our school community.

Happy feast day!

May their souls...

This weekend our nation pauses to honor those men and women who died serving our country in the armed forces.  Memorial Day used to be known as Decoration Day when the graves of the men who died in the Civil War were decorated with flowers.  Eventually this holiday was expanded to honor those who died in all wars and renamed Memorial Day.  It was originally celebrated on May 30 but was moved to the last Monday in May when many other federal holidays were moved to a Monday in the 1970's.

Thankfully no Trinity High School alums have died while serving their country but six alums of one of our predecessor schools, Bishop Bradley High School, died in the Vietnam War.  I am certain graduates of another of our predecessor schools, St. Joseph High School for Boys, died in World Wars I and II but I haven't researched that yet.  Last November we honored the six Bradley Boys who died in Vietnam at a special school assembly.  They were:

Richard Bouchard '66
John Falcone '57
Thomas Nadeau '66
Raymond Mroczynski '58
Frank Sharek '65
Lucien Tessier '61

May their souls, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.  Amen.

May 23, 2015

Senior Day of Reflection

It has been our long custom to hold our senior day of reflection (aka senior retreat) on the morning of the prom.  Our prom is always held on the Friday before Memorial Day and the retreat is from 8am-12pm and has been held at Blessed Sacrament Church in Manchester for as long as I can remember.

The format of the day hasn't changed over the years either although I added a prayer service when I took over campus ministry.  The prayer service begins the day which included us all praying Psalm 139 together, the gospel reading from Matthew 5:13-16 about letting your light shine, a reflection by me (see below), and some final prayers.  The students then heard talks from four members of our staff:

Mrs. Brewitt '90, P'16, '17 of our guidance office who spoke about her youngest son's medical issues and what his healing taught her about God and parenthood

Ms. Byron of our social studies department who spoke of fresh starts

Mr. Martinez of our science department who spoke of his personal failures in college

Mr. Smith, our dean of students and admissions director, about being safe and smart on prom night

All of the talks were outstanding and very well received from the students.  We then had an open mic where for 90 minutes the seniors were invited to come up and offer their own thoughts, stories, etc.  In all the years I've been coming to this day, this year's open mic was the most intense.  Normally the students offer some funny stories and reminisce with some poignant stories but everyone who spoke this year spoke of some personal struggles and how Trinity helped them or how their struggles impacted them.  I had to cut it off as we were running out of time but it was very powerful.

From there we moved to the upper church for the final part which I always keep as a surprise for the kids.  Let's just say you can always mop the floor with all the tears that are shed!  In the evening we celebrated the prom at the Radisson in downtown Manchester.  As always, I had the great privilege of offering grace before we all ate.

This day marks, in a sense, the beginning of the end for our seniors.  Next week we will have Awards Night, the Senior Farewell Mass, a Fisher Cats game, and the senior trip to Canobie Lake.  The week after is senior final exams and the Monday and Tuesday after is the Baccalaureate Mass and Commencement, respectively.  Here's to the Class of 2015!

Here is my reflection from the morning:

Abraham Lincoln was never baptized, never joined a church, and rarely mentioned Jesus.  His widow, Mary Todd Lincoln, once remarked after his death, “He was a religious man always but he was not a technical Christian.”  He did go to church services on occasion in Washington.  On one of those occasions, President Lincoln listened intently to the sermon.  After leaving church, the president was asked by his secret service guard, “What did you think of the sermon, Mr. President?”  Lincoln paused and said with obvious hesitation, “It was...good.”  The guard inquired, “You didn’t like it?” to which Abraham Lincoln responded, “He never asked us to do something great.”

I hope you used your final year of high school - the final year of your youth - to leave your mark on Trinity High School and to make the most of the precious time you had left here, to set it on fire (thankfully not literally).  Now as you’re about to leave, we gather together for one of the final times to reflect on the past four years and to consider your futures.  

The final days of your senior year will have a number of references to fire and light:

  1. Today’s scripture reading from Matthew’s gospel about letting your light shine
  2. Your senior candles which you will receive next week
  3. The candles you will light at the end of your Baccalaureate Mass on June 8

This is very intentional.  In the Catholic Church, “light” is a symbol of Jesus Christ.  We use candles and references to fire to remember that Jesus Christ is the light of the world who has brought light to a darkened world.  But as Mrs. Brewitt just read, Jesus also expects all of us to be light to the world.  Jesus is not here physically anymore and He will not come again until the end of time.  Until that happens, it is up to you and me to be light in the world, that is, to be Jesus.  How can we do that?  How can we be happy being Jesus to others?  

Consider Mr. and Mrs. Bielik.  Last year they left behind their families, their jobs, their home, money, and so much more to dedicate the next two years of their lives to the Peace Corps.  But despite giving up almost everything, they certainly have never been happier.

What about those of you who went to St. Francis Inn, Guatemala, or Montana over the past year or two.  You had no televisions, you were surrounded by poverty, you worked hard among the poor, and you had little to no creature comforts.  But remember how happy you were?

There is certainly nothing wrong with making money or being wealthy but if you are going to be light to the world, you have to make sure you spend your life doing something you love.  Don’t just become a businessman or woman because that’s where the money is.  Don’t just become a lawyer because of the prestige.  If you do something in life just because of the money or power or prestige, you will not be happy, I can promise you that and I speak from personal experience.  If you do something that you’re passionate about and something that makes you excited to get up in the morning, you know you’ve found your calling in life.  

I know that at 18, 19 years old you don’t believe me but life goes by quickly.  The past ten years have been a blur and I cannot believe I have three kids with another one on the way and that I will celebrate my 10th anniversary in a few weeks.  I remember making fun of my father when he turned 50 and got his membership card from the AARP.  Whose laughing now – that’s just 11 years away for me.  Trust me folks – before you know it, you’ll be overweight, in debt, balding, and ready for retirement.  You want to make sure that you retire from something that made you happy. 

Consider this quote from George Bernard Shaw:

I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no "brief candle" for me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations.

I cannot stress it enough - DO SOMETHING GREAT WITH YOUR LIVES.  If that means being a successful businessman, a doctor, an engineer, a priest, a sister, a teacher, a lawyer, a stay at home mom, so be it.  But whatever you do, do it because you love it and because it drives you.  Follow your passions, not the money.  If life doesn’t turn out exactly how you planned it, don’t worry.  I went from wanting to be a French teacher, to a politician, to a financial services employee, to a priest before I finally figured out what I wanted to be when I grow up! It wasn’t until I was 30 that I found my passion and my vocation…and I’ve never been happier.  It’s like that saying from Saint Augustine: “Our hearts are restless until they find their rest in God.”  My heart was restless until it found Trinity High School.

Father Andrew Nelson, our former Campus Minister, used to like to tell a wonderful story about the Bridge of Tears.  As you know, millions of Irish immigrated to the United States over the past 150 years.  In many instances, those who were leaving would walk to the port and be accompanied by their family and friends.  In some villages when they arrived at a certain bridge, the family and friends would stop and the traveler would walk over the bridge alone.  His family and friends had gone as far as they could and it was time to say goodbye.  The traveler would now go on his own to face the challenges and the future.  As the traveler walked over that bridge, the people would stay behind and say goodbye from the other side and watch and cry, hence the name “Bridge of Tears.”

We at Trinity High School have taken you as far as you can go.  We have done all that we can and it’s time for us to stop and let you go.  My mother always told my sister and me, “I gave you roots but I also gave you wings.”  You will always have roots at Trinity High School but from the moment you arrived in August of 2011 we have been preparing you to leave.  There will be tears at your graduation and we hate to have you leave us.  But we know that your best years are ahead of you and your futures will be bright and you will be the light of Christ in a world that so desperately needs it.

May you live Jesus in your hearts.  Forever.


Amen.

May 20, 2015

NHS Induction

Last night our school community inducted the newest members into the National Honor Society.  In order to become a member, students must have a 3.6 GPA and demonstrate a commitment to service.  We induct students beginning in the second semester of their sophomore year so most (if not all) of last night's inductees were sophomores.

I had the honor of offering the opening prayer and I spoke of how much I admire the fact that membership in NHS is not just grade based but also based on service.  I said that that is sort of the hallmark of a Trinity High School education - we strive to get students into college but also (and more importantly) into heaven.  For our prayer I read the gospel passage from St. John's gospel when Jesus washed His disciples' feet.  My favorite line is:

“Do you realize what I have done for you?  You call me 'teacher' and 'master,' and rightly so, for indeed I am.  If I, therefore, the master and teacher, have washed your feet, you ought to wash one another's feet."

The keynote speaker was David Gagnon '11 who is a seminarian with the Diocese of Manchester.  He too spoke about servant leadership and the marks of a true leader (you'd think we collaborated).  He also offered the final prayer.  David just graduated from Providence College where he lived in a house of formation and this fall he will be enrolling in St. Mary's Seminary in Baltimore.  He will be spending the summer at St. Patrick's Parish in Pelham.

Congratulations to all the new inductees, you deserve it.

May 18, 2015

May their souls...

Last week was a sad week at Trinity High School as two of our parents passed away unexpectedly.  Last Monday, Michael D'Amico P'17, the father of Dominic '17 passed away and last Thursday the mother of our assistant principal Mr. Gadecki P'10, '12, '13, '15, '17 died.  Mrs. Gadecki's funeral is this morning and Mr. D'Amico's is tomorrow.  Please pray for the repose of their souls as well as for those left behind.

May their souls, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.  Amen.

May 15, 2015

Cardinal Lacroix Scholarship

About a year ago, Cardinal Lacroix '75 said he wanted to establish a scholarship fund at Trinity High School to benefit students who might not otherwise be able to attend the school.  Our chaplain Fr. Richard Dion, Yvan Lacroix '76, our development director Mr. Connell '90, our former campus minister Fr. Andrew Nelson and others worked very hard to plan the event since last spring.  The event was held last night at Labelle Winery in Amherst and was a wonderful success.  Many donors generously bought seats for teachers from Trinity to attend which meant a great deal to those who us who would not otherwise be able to attend.  Ten students were also able to attend thanks to generous donors.

The evening began with a social followed by a delicious dinner of filet mignon or salmon (the filet mignon was wrapped in bacon, there is a God) and creme brûlée.  Thankfully Mr. Carnevale didn't want his dessert so I had double!

The program consisted of a number of speakers, including Fr. Andrew, Mr. Sheehan '79 of our math department, Yvan, seminarian David Gagnon '11, and of course Cardinal Lacroix.  Fr. Richard served as the master of ceremonies.  All the talks were wonderful but Fr. Andrew and Mr. Sheehan brilliantly spoke about the value of Catholic education, both as teachers, alums, and in Mr. Sheehan's case, a guardian of a Catholic school student.  Cardinal Lacroix was effusive in his praise of Trinity High School and the formation he received.  In the end he announced that the dinner raised $43,000 ($45,000 a few minutes later as someone gave a check for $2,000).  I am certain that number will rise even more.

It was a lovely evening and a real affirmation of the work we are doing here.  There were a lot of big names and heavy hitters in the room and it was good to know they were hearing the good news of Trinity High School.  We are so grateful to Cardinal Lacroix for lending his time, name, and effort to this scholarship.  The Union Leader did a nice article on the event which you can read here.